Do you have a heart for prayer, but stumble in your confidence because you aren’t sure you are doing it “right”? First, let me reassure you – there is no way to pray wrong! God loves His children coming to Him. Period. He loves to hear your heart and all the thoughts circling round your often-too-busy mind!
However, there’s something powerful about approaching God’s throne with confidence. Confidence leads to boldness and God tells us to come boldly to the throne.
So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most. -Hebrews 4:16 NLT
So, how can a prayer model help me pray?
Prayer models help us reach our prayer goals. They make us consistent, give us confidence, and instill boldness. They serve as a checklist approach to praying so we don’t forget the things we want to bring to God or run down rabbit trails we never wanted to travel.Prayer models make us consistent, give us confidence, and instill boldness. They serve as a checklist approach to praying so we don’t forget the things we want to bring to God or run down rabbit trails we never wanted to travel… Click To Tweet
You know the kind, right? We start off praying for a friend’s circumstance or personal need and then all of a sudden, we realize we just added bread to the grocery list? (Insert shocked face emoji here) What I’ve found throughout my own years of praying is that those impulses happen less when I pray with intention. A prayer model does just that. It helps us be intentional by keeping us on track and establishing wise habits.
One I’ve stuck to for many years is the ACTS Prayer Model. This model, together with praying Scripture as we explored last week with Melanie at Ministry of Hope, will lead toward intentional effective prayer.
The ACTS Prayer Model
A – Adoration
Starting our prayers off with adoration for our Father prepares our hearts and minds by getting them in the right place. It focuses our thoughts on the awesomeness of our God. We get the opportunity to tell Him how amazing He is and acknowledge His mighty power and love. In doing so, we remind ourselves of His character and the very reasons why we can trust and have confidence in Him.
C – Confession
Confession takes humility. Conversations that are rooted in humility are productive. We cannot get to authentic relationship unless we surrender our pride and trust God with our broken attempts at life. When we pour out the sin weighing us down, we find freedom. The burden is lifted. There is no point in hiding our sin from God because He already knows. But there is tremendous gain in admitting and repenting of our sin. It is where true transformation takes place.
T – Thanksgiving
Gratitude is powerful. Again, it prepares our hearts and minds to give and receive in fullness. It sets the atmosphere as a positive environment instead of seeped in the negativity the enemy loves for us to hold close. We remind ourselves of all our blessings – of all God has already done in our lives, which in and of itself, gives us hope. It reminds us of what He has already done and therefore is capable of doing again.
Originally, I struggled to understand the difference between adoration and thanksgiving. It is easiest to think of as adoration is worshiping God for who He is and thanksgiving is thanking Him for what He has done.
S – Supplication/Intercession
Now that we have praised Him, freed ourselves from the weight of sin, and thanked Him for all He has done, we can approach God confidently with our needs and the needs of others. With humble gratitude and surrender in place, our petitions are soaked in authenticity. There are no barriers such as bitterness, anger, or shame.
The ACTS Prayer Model Helps Us Get Unstuck
One of the aspects I like about the ACTS Prayer Model is that it keeps us from getting stuck in the muck of our lives. Negativity sucks us in. It’s like quicksand because it fools us into thinking it is harmless. We start by simply unloading our struggles. But then we unload … and unload … and get stuck there. We forget to see the good on each side of our struggles. But seeing the good takes intentionality. It’s not easy because the bad is a squeakier wheel. It drowns out the good. So, if we don’t intentionally think on all that which is good, we lose ourselves to the depths of the bad.Negativity is like quicksand. It fools us into thinking it is harmless. We start by simply unloading our struggles. But then we unload … and unload … and stay there. Getting unstuck takes intentional effort. #ACTSPrayerModel… Click To Tweet
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you. -Philippians 4:6-9 NLT
Get This ACTS Prayer Model Chart
Along with this post, I’m sharing a printable chart. You can use this chart as a reminder of the ACTS Prayer Model when you write or say your prayers. I hope it helps you and as you seek to strengthen your prayer life. (The printable pdf version of this can be found in my Library of Hope to which you get free access when you subscribe.)
Thank you for joining us for the The Way We Pray Series. If prayer is new to you, these four articles will give you a solid prayer foundation. They will equip you to pray with confidence and boldness! Join us next week as my friend Natalie of Milk & Honey Faith walks us through how Jesus taught us to pray.
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