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Bold Faith and Brave Surrender’s Role in the Adoption Journey: Our Story

It was a morning I will never forget. There she was. Rosy cheeks. Curly black hair. And her almost black eyes? They wouldn’t let go.

A flood of emotions washed over me as I cried.

I’d seen my daughter for the first time.

It was the next chapter in our story, however, it didn’t go as I’d hoped.

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It had been just over a year since we’d begun the paperwork for our adoption. Three months prior we received the Bulgarian approval and we waited for a match. International adoption is a complicated process involving lots of waiting so we prepared as best we could. We had yet to realize trusting and surrendering plays an enormous part in waiting well.

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That rosy-cheeked little girl in my email inbox wasn’t the one the Ministry of Justice specifically matched to us. Instead, she was a child listed as having special needs allowing agencies to send her photos and medical records to families registered within their program.

I was nervous as I read her medical report because my husband and I believed we weren’t equipped to parent a child with severe special needs. Yet, I was convicted beyond the shadow of a doubt this little girl was the one God meant for us. She was a Schumaker.

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But what if her report was filled with scary diagnoses? What if my husband didn’t see it as I did?

I hesitantly opened the medical file. As I read through it, relief washed over me! Speech delay? We can handle that. Flat feet? What? Really? Since when is flat feet a special need? Developmental delay? Check. That’s expected from all children living in an institution and not receiving ideal care.

That night after our boys were tucked in bed sound asleep I told my husband to sit down. I asked him to look at a picture and to promise not to say a word until he fully listened to what I had to say.

But I didn’t need to say a thing. My stoic strong man couldn’t hide the emotions washing over him.

He’d seen his daughter for the first time, too.

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A month later, they set our petition for presentation before the Bulgarian Ministry of Justice. Excitement filled our house that morning. It was the day it would be official! We would start the formal process of adopting our daughter.

With the kids off to school and my husband at work, I awaited the celebratory call. Our case worker was just as excited for us and couldn’t wait to make the happy call.

My cell phone rang and with anticipation, I answered. But the words I heard were not the words any of us expected. The answer was “no”. Our little girl had been given to another family.

Friends, I can’t put words to what God does in adoption. When He calls you, turning away from it is impossible. His call is relentless.

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And He opens your heart to love deeply long before meeting your child.

Just as you love the child growing within your womb, God fills your heart with that same love for a child who may happen to live halfway around the world.

So in that moment, grief consumed every fiber of my soul.

…continue

Join me over at my friend, Kristi Woods, for the rest of our story. Our adoption story wasn’t typical and still isn’t. But it’s a beautiful story God continues to write even today. I’m honored to share it with you and as a part of Kristi’s series ♥



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  1. When God calls us to anything, it’s hard to turn away.
    Thanks for sharing your story of boldness, Lori. It’s good to be encouraged by what we read.

    1. That is so true, Lux! When God places that call deep on our heart, He compels us to follow Him!