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The Kind of Love That Heals What Is Broken

What is better – to continue to love but risk the ache from the bitter slashes of hurt and betrayal or build a wall of steel and never love deeply again?

Is there a way I can love and withstand the hurt that may come from opening my heart? The love of Christ is that kind of love. #godslove #loveofChrist #adoption #nationaladoptionmonth #surrenderedheartsbook

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Early in my life, like so many of us, I learned about the sting of rejection and careless words. That sting took a toll on my heart and affected me emotionally for many years. Eventually I built a wall, placing it between myself and meaningful relationships.  Turning my back when things got rough seemed to be my safest option … or so I thought.

But then I met Jesus – or I guess I can say I experienced the fullness of His love. You see, I’d always been a believer. I revered a powerful God, never doubting His existence.

However, I didn’t walk with Him. Instead, I admired Him from afar. That didn’t help me know how deep the love of Christ runs.

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This time around, though, I met Him in a different way. A way that allowed me to walk with Him and believe in the power of healing through His name. I believed His desire to see me live a life of wholeness and love. Learning that the hurt didn’t need to be filled by the people who disappointed me, I grasped that I could only be filled by the One who would or could never betray me. I discovered that through each and every rejection – every betrayal – every careless word and selfish action, Jesus had been working on my heart. He was refining the work He started so long ago. The work He would not let go unfinished.

And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns. Philippians 1:6 NLT

Today I walk in the ultimate battle of love versus steel walls. It’s a battle for my daughter’s heart.

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Long before she was my daughter, I loved the little girl I knew we would someday adopt. I prayed for years that God would bring adoption into our family. That my husband’s heart would have the same desire and that God would prepare our boys’ hearts to love beyond measure. I prayed for the little girl somewhere in the world that was or would be orphaned … and for a mother struggling with a life-changing decision to make.

When the decision to adopt became unanimous for our family, the love in my heart grew even more. We jumped in wholeheartedly in order to bring our little girl home as soon as possible. Nearly a year after we signed our original paperwork, I saw her face for the first time. As my heart burst, I knew I’d seen the face of my daughter. A daughter born in my heart.

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“I instantly knew that God grows a child in our heart as unmistakably as He does in our womb.” -Lori Schumaker in Surrendered Hearts

Over the next 18 months we faced intense challenges. We loved, we lost, and we learned to trust. We learned that surrendering doesn’t come easy, but that it’s the place where God calls us into the middle of His miracles.

There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life – fear of death, fear of judgment – is one not yet fully formed in love. -1 John 4:18 MSG

After a long and mighty battle our little one finally came home to us. This weary mama was ready to rest in the love for her baby. I was ready to wrap my arms around my little girl and feel peace. But that was not our story. Our Selah wasn’t about resting in anyone’s arms. Instead of cuddles, she was up for the fight of her life. So injured by rejection of the most catastrophic kind, she had built walls of steel so high only a miracle could bring them down.

… read more here of how our family leaned into the only kind of love that heals what is broken – the love of Christ.

I am honored to share more of our story over on Michelle Madrid-Branch’s blog. She is a powerhouse defender of the orphan. Her wisdom is filled with fact, empathy, and passion. If you are an adoptive parent or an adoptee, you want to make sure you add her to your resources!

Is there a way I can love and withstand the hurt that may come from opening my heart? The love of Christ is that kind of love. #godslove #loveofChrist #adoption #nationaladoptionmonth #surrenderedheartsbook


Surrendered Hearts: An Adoption Story of Love, Loss, and Learning to Trust is our family’s adoption story. But it’s so much more. It’s how we’ve learned to surrender our will for God’s and how we’ve experienced miracles because of it. My prayer is that as each persona steps out into the unknown, they lean into the strength of Christ and discover something far beyond what they have ever imagined.

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Surrendered Hearts: An Adoption Story of Love, Loss, and Learning to Trust

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Want more information? The Surrendered Hearts website is HERE! You’ll find the Book Video Trailer and other goodies like shareable images, tweets, and a set of FREE Bonus Resources for the adoptive parent or for anyone needing a little extra encouragement in life!
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Free Printable Bonus Resources: Prayers, Verses, Scripture Cards, Resource Lists., and a beautiful original print. A huge packet of resources for the adoptive parent or for anyone needing encouragement in life! Created with Surrendered Hearts: An Adoption Story of Love, Loss, and Learning to Trust by Lori Schumaker #adoption #prntables #scripturecards #bibleverses

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The Surrendered Hearts Bracelet

In conjunction with the book, I have partnered with Theresa of  Tees Cherished Finds to create a Surrendered Hearts Bracelet! The message to Live Surrendered means that you are choosing to lay down your fears and live surrendered to the One who makes the impossible possible.  When you choose to Live Surrendered, you are committing to following Jesus where He calls. You are choosing to let go of your way and take hold of His way.  And when you purchase a bracelet for just $15 (look in the right margin), just as when you purchase the book, a portion of the proceeds will go to Lori’s chosen adoption ministries. Just click on the image below. It will take you to the Surrendered Hearts page where you can find out more and make your purchase!

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13 Comments

  1. Lori, I love your story, but I know it wasn’t easy, and it was painful. Funny, how the best things ljgin life usually are. A year ago this time I was excitedly expecting to be a new foster mom. That never happened.. at least not in the way I thought it would. A year later, I’m ready to throw in the towel. Much prayer! Anywho, thank you for continually inspiring us and being a champion for the orphan.

  2. I’m loving these posts about “the daughter born in your heart,” and so look forward to reading your book.

  3. I’m so glad to see Crystal’s post featured. It really spoke to my heart. Thanks for hosting and continued blessings on your book!

  4. Heading over to read more now, Lori! I’m so excited about your new book and know it will encourage so many who have already adopted and those who are only thinking about it. Plus, it’s something we all can relate to–protecting our hearts from more hurt–so I’m sure this will encourage everyone who reads!

  5. Thank you Lori,
    Its fruitful to look at the walls we have a tendency to build between us & God over certain areas in our lives thankfully He reveals them to us & brings them down!
    Blessings,
    Jennifer

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